Honoring the Past; Beginning Again

Tonight another chapter in the book of my life is coming to a close.  This chapter is called 2012.  Tomorrow a new chapter begins and I find myself contemplating what it will look like.  Many chapters in my life have already closed and it is uncertain how many more will be written before the book is finished.  I wonder if the best or the worst stories have already been written.  What is it that lies ahead?

It seems only fitting to review the road I’ve already traveled.  In my mind’s eye I see it as a gravel road heading back toward my day of birth.  This road is filled with pot holes, washboard ruts, swirling clouds of dust and even a couple of sink holes.  But as I look a little closer I also see some smooth spots with rolling hills mixed in with an array of mountainous peaks and dramatic drops into some dark deep valleys.

As I look at the landscape of my past life I can see that the potholes and the rolling hills are mixed together.  No part of the road ever appears to be all rough or all easy.  I am reminded that my life has been ultimately balanced in some mysterious way that keeps me hopeful that the future will hold good things.

I see the potholes as all those little irritations and setbacks one has in life just because we are alive.  In the earliest chapters of my life this may have been homework left unfinished, a failed test, being chosen last to be on someone’s team.   In the later chapters the potholes became disappointments in relationships, financial challenges, and parenting issues.  Each pothole seemed so important in its respective chapter and yet now it is only a memory carrying very little emotion.

My sinkholes were truly deep dark valleys in my life.  So dark that I believed at the time that I did not want to live.  The problems I faced seemed too great to bear.  I find myself wondering if everyone experiences sinkholes during their life or are sinkholes reserved either for people whose karma has caught up with them or people destined for sainthood.  I shudder to think which instance might account for my experience.

I think too about the washboard ruts.  They seem to describe periods of life where I was untrue to myself.  Life is bumpy and uncomfortable when you are married to the wrong person, working in a job or profession that isn’t satisfying, or living in a home, a town, state, or even country that doesn’t feel right.

Several things become clear when I look over the road I have already traveled.  First I notice that it’s not all good or all bad.  My memories or perceptions of the events in my life are all mixed together giving me hope going forward that it will always be a mix.  No matter what problems I experience I can count on them ending or at least being muted by the peace, joy, and comfort of the good times that will surely appear in due time.  I can also see as I begin to review my potholes that many of them look strangely alike.  Oh yes, the people, places, or specifics may be different but many have a common cause.  It may be that I focused too much on greed, or I failed to take care of my health and wellbeing or I may have been selfish, uncooperative, or egoistic.  I know what I did and I know that if these are the problems that appeared in the chapter that is now closing then I haven’t yet learned my lesson.  My review prompts me to look at my potholes and know them well.  If I want them to disappear then I need to change how I handle those issues the next time they stand before me.  If I do not fill them with effort and change they will keep coming back to ensure the same rough ride that feels so unwelcome and yet so familiar.

My review does not focus on just the problems of my past.  I find comfort and great value in remembering the good stuff too.  There are fond memories of a favorite grandparent, teachers, neighbors and other adults who made an impression on me for their kindness or attention.  A warm glow seems to well up in my heart when I think of my best friends in grade school or even later in my life. I also feel this glow as I remember accomplishments, things that I created, and people I have loved.  I feel the glow as I remember the peace I felt sitting in a boat rocking on the waves, riding a horse through the woods on a sunny day, or playing baseball on the street in front of our house.  Later in life the joy comes from things like a wedding day, the birth of my children, landing the job I always wanted and becoming part a loving  and caring circle of supportive friends.  I can learn as much from looking at these highlights in my life as I learn from the potholes.

So often as I have approached the end of anther year, another chapter in my life, I have made resolutions aimed squarely at the potholes.  While it’s admirable to give up my perceived vices the success rate has been fairly low.  Motivation to do without something even when it’s something I know is bad for me is very difficult to maintain.  The more I think about letting go of it, the more I want it.

What if in place of giving up something in the next chapter of my life I plan to take something from my past with me into the future?  What if I took some of that happiness I found between the potholes of all my yesterdays?  This might mean I spend more time walking in the woods, sitting by a lake or river, sewing, cooking, listening to music, or playing with my grandkids. Whatever it is I find in my past that made my heart sing could become what I bring abundantly into the next chapter of my life, the chapter called 2013.  This can be risky.  What if it no longer brings me joy?  What if I have to change my daily routine?  What if…?

I have to decide whether or not the road I have traveled is the one I want to stay on with all the same potholes and all the same rewards.  I say I want more peace, joy, and pleasure in my life but have I focused on the potholes instead of the rolling hills?  The path to happiness may not be reached quite as easily giving up what is bad for me as it could be by simply adding more to my life of what I know has made me happy in the past.  Hmm.

Tracing the Ego of Mankind – Summary and Conclusions

The nature of ego has been known to mankind since ancient times. Hindus sought to suppress it, Buddhists sought to walk a middle path of semi-acceptance, and Kabbalists embraced it as a natural and necessary part of our evolution. Christians, Jews, and Muslims seem to live in opposition to the teachings in their sacred texts by embracing, perhaps even celebrating the magnificence of the ego.

Ego has assisted both the rise and the fall of many empires throughout history; telling us that in spite of the warnings and instructions that were given to the world in ages past, people have chosen to live robustly from their ego.

Today the world appears to be at another peak in the expression and experience of ego. Some believe that we are in the end times and that the world as we know it is about to physically self-destruct. Others believe that we are in a period of awakening that will lead us into an age of peace and harmony. Regardless of what one chooses to believe, there is palpable tension everywhere and it is most certainly related to the collective ego of the world at this point in time.

One thing is certain; this is an amazing and interesting time to be alive. We are seeing the convergence of science and spiritual thought. Quantum physics is discovering unseen laws of the universe that support the spiritual wisdom which has been handed down through the ages. Scientific egos everywhere are in turmoil as they rally behind their intellect, looking not to prove the Universe is One but, to prove that everything is and always was separate, in spite of evidence to the contrary.

The world is also witness to a spiritual explosion of awakening to Oneness. As people recognize their connection to, and influence upon everything, both animate and inanimate, they are choosing less consumptive more earth friendly lifestyles. The impact of this change is felt in everything from food, manufacturing and housing, to medicine, education and politics.

It’s as if the world is completing a giant circle; from knowing we must beware of our ego, into a time where we have lived by our ego until recent awareness that the pain has become too great to continue, many are now heading back into a period of knowing again.

If this is in fact what we are witnessing then it would seem prudent to investigate how an awakening world can grow peacefully within an ailing egoistic society. Recognizing that ego is the veil that separates the illusionary physical world from the eternal spiritual world, we know that ego will always be a part of life on earth. We may find that the best solution has already been given to us in the Buddhist Way of the Middle Path.

Yet, one wonders how recent scientific discoveries might change the dynamics of our world. If in fact our world is like a never ending hologram, will the technology of the future will be mechanical, conscious, or both. In a mechanical world we already know the ego turns greedy, based on past experience. But science is telling us that the hologram or energy matrix that has been discovered is influenced by emotion. We might find that the egoistic mind will seek to enslave others more capable of producing the desired emotions. Of course, the other option is that in a world that can be manipulated with emotion, or thoughts, the enlightened have an unfair advantage regardless of position, power, education or just about anything else.

As the world enters a new age it appears that it will carry with it the same underlying problems it has always experienced, dressed in different attire. The goal remains the same throughout eternity; learn from one’s mistakes and strive for better next time.

Tracing the Ego of Mankind – Ego Creates Errors in Perception

Ego is like a balloon in which one lives. Everything outside that balloon is part of Oneness. From inside one’s balloon the Oneness cannot be seen; only the self can be seen and it is separate from everything else. Sadly, most people of the world live entirely in their own balloons, failing to see the Oneness. The balloon has become an invisible barrier that creates the illusion of separation. This invisible barrier also limits and controls one’s ability to interact with the outer world. The confinement and separation convinces one that they are unworthy to be part of anything else. To break the balloon, eliminating the barrier, is all that is required to see and become part of the Oneness.

Before we metaphysicians become too excited and rush out into the world with giant needles looking to pop the ego filled balloons of mankind, we would be well advised to check the condition of our own balloon first. In Jesus’ words, “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?”

Ego is clearly the source of the world’s problems and miseries both great and small. Yet to wage war against ego is to fuel the very problem we are trying to solve. In the book, A Course in Miracles, we are told that the actions of the ego are errors in thinking. That means that as metaphysicians we might best view ourselves as teachers correcting errors in how the ego perceives itself and the world around it. This sounds much more loving than the waging of another war. Experience has told us many times that war doesn’t create peace. Consider the war on drugs, the war on crime, and the war on terrorism. None of these wars has been successful, regardless of the time, energy, and resources put into them.

As one prepares to examine their own ego it would be wise to keep in mind the words of author and radio host Garrison Keillor, who introduces us to his mythical Minnesota community with the words, “Welcome to Lake Wobegon, where all the women are strong, all the men are good looking, and all the children are above average.” These words are humorous yet they also represent a poignant commentary on how the ego really thinks. One’s initial self-examination could very well lead them down the proverbial primrose path if they are not completely open to the truth.

One place to test the ego is in identifying one’s motive for becoming a metaphysician and setting out into the world on this particular spiritual journey. Let’s consider this possible mission statement; I will create peace and happiness in the world by teaching, writing, and healing. If we break this down for analysis we might find that create peace and happiness appeals to us either because it simply is the right thing to do (spiritual) or because it will make us feel good (ego). Similarly we can scrutinize teaching, writing, and healing. One may have chosen these means because one is particularly knowledgeable and gifted in these areas (spiritual) or because it’s easier to make a living (money, honor, fame, security) doing this things (ego).

One’s ego will surely try to convince them that they are making their choices for spiritual reasons. Many metaphysicians even argue that it is reasonable to make a living helping people because the Universe demands an exchange of energy. But this argument comes from the ego which believes that life is finite. The Spirit recognizes that the exchange will come sometime in eternity based on one’s need. Buddhists refer to the ideal exchange as selfless giving. Kabbalists refer to it as receiving from the Creator with the intent to bestow. In both of these instances the giver must release attachment to what is given and to all possible outcomes.

When one finds themselves debating or justifying their financial motives it is pretty clear that the ego is involved. This defense is the egos fear that it will not survive. When one’s spirit is engaged this fear is gone and trust is placed in the law of abundance. One only need look at the lives of the great Masters and Saints, who gave help to those in need without expectation, yet their own needs were always met.

The purpose for this discussion is not to say one must be perfectly spiritual and altruistic in order to become a practicing metaphysician. If we were to become perfectly spiritual we would not be living in the physical realm. Rather, it is to demonstrate the crafty ways that ego will dress itself up in order to convince us of our specialness and our separateness. It is when we are able to recognize those times that we are thinking and acting from ego that we are actually awakening to our true spiritual nature. Change then becomes possible through this awareness. This is a lesson one needs to learn about ego and certainly one to be taught to others.

There are many arenas within which one may work to create this awareness. Many individuals are suffering their own self-imposed versions of hell because they don’t understand what their ego is doing to them. Families are suffering from conflicts and pain created by the selfish nature of the ego. Workers are suffering the abuse of power delivered by egoistic coworkers and superiors. Communities and even whole nations are suffering from fear of each other, fear of hunger and poverty, and fear that they may lose control of their destiny. Ego has so many dark faces; there is no end to where the awakened may choose to bring the light of awareness.

It just makes sense to grow where you are planted. That is to say, begin with yourself. The change in you will naturally create change in many of those around you. When you are able to accept the events of your life and your world unemotionally and recognize them as being the way they are meant to be, then you will know you are on the right path. In other words, change what you can and let the rest be. This is what peace feels like and this is what you will want for your fellow human beings. From this position you can teach as a voice of experience. How you value such a gift to the world can only be determined by you.

Tracing the Ego of Mankind – Living Oneness

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Contemporary economist, David Korten tells us “in the world we want, the organization of economic life mimics healthy ecosystems that are locally rooted, highly adaptive, and self-reliant in food and energy. Information and technology are shared freely, and trade between neighbors is fair and balanced. Each community, region and nation strives to live within its own means in balance with its own environmental resources. Conflicts are resolved peacefully and no groups seek to expropriate the resources of its neighbors. Competition is for excellence, not domination.” (Living Oneness, p. 134)

Point by point one sees how much the world must change to experience such a reality. The greatest change of all must be the relationship between man and his ego. As long as man allows himself to be convinced of his specialness, he will continue to commodify, abuse, and destroy the world around him because he fails to see its relationship to himself.

Author Wayne Dyer describes how the ego convinces one of their specialness, by judging some to be more worthy than others, denying the equality of creation, giving one a fear of not being special, encouraging one to accumulate things (to increase happiness and affirm one’s specialness), and by denying unconditional love. He says our ego is ready to be offended by telling us how we expect to be treated and how others should think, feel and behave. The things that offend one are the things that play to one‟s self-absorption.

People who are discovering their Oneness are no longer offended by what others do for; they are only doing what humans do. From a position of Oneness, you see fellow human beings as they are rather than as how you think they should be.

Dyer offers some suggestions to help transcend what he calls ingrained ideas of self-importance. The first thing one need do is to stop being offended. Offence is the ego at work convincing one that the world shouldn’t be the way it is. Yes, we do need to act to eradicate the horrors of the world, but we can do this from a place of inner peace rather than from a destructive energy that only serves to escalate the horror.

Let go of your need to win. There are no losers in a world where everything is one. When we become observers to the world around us we are able to realize that winning only means that on a certain day, with certain competitors, and with certain circumstance, one performed at a certain level in comparison to the levels of others on that day. It simply is not possible to win all of the time.

Let go of your need to be right. Dyer tells us this is like refusing to be the slave of one’s ego by choosing kindness instead. He suggests stopping yourself in the middle of an argument and asking, “Do I want to be right or be happy?”

Let go of your need to be superior. Superiority comes from perceiving something lacking in another. This is the ego protecting its specialness. In a universe where everything is one, each creation has its special job to do and has been given just what it needs to accomplish that job. The gifts each has are unique to their purpose but no purpose is more or less important than another.

Let go of your need to have more. The ego is never satisfied. To transcend the selfish nature of ego one must allow abundance to flow to and through you. In the words of St. Francis of Assisi, “…it is in giving that we receive.”

Let go of identifying yourself on the basis of your achievements. Jesus said, “It is not I who do great works, but my Father.” Billy Graham said, “I am not a great speaker, I just have a great message.” Jesus and Graham transcended the egoistic desire to take credit. Again, the ego seeks to protect our specialness and we must transcend the desire to believe the ego. We are not our achievements anymore than a hammer is a house or knitting needles are a sweater.

And finally, Dyer tells us to let go of our reputation. Reputation resides in the minds of others leaving us with no control over it. When we are overly concerned about how others perceive us we are allowing the opinions of others to be our guide. Character, on the other hand resides within us; staying on our purpose, detaching from outcome, and taking responsibility for ourselves. Character is where we must place our attention.

As the awakening to Oneness has continued to unfold, many speakers, writers, groups, and organizations are appearing with a consistent message that we are not our ego and that ego is a powerful master of deception. There is an uncanny resemblance of ego to the powers and attributes Christians have ascribed to Satan. Evidence is mounting that the battle between good and evil is not necessarily one between nations, armies, religions, or even gangs of thugs, but rather a battle between the Soul and the ego of each individual.

If this is true, then it must also be true that world peace will not happen out there someplace, but will happen one person at a time wherever they reside and whenever they are ready to make the commitment. Some people will always be called to active service like building bottle schools in Guatemala, offering hurricane relief in Haiti, feeding the hungry in Somalia and attending to the many ways that people are suffering in the world. But many more people will be called to grow where they are planted.

For many people their contribution to Oneness and world peace will come from the simple acts of everyday life. In the book, Divine Nobodies, Jim Palmer recounts the stories of ordinary people who have a divine impact on those around them. A few dollars or the right words delivered in a time of need, an unexpected assist with a difficult task, or even just coffee, conversation or friendship; all are simple acts that can have divine consequences. For when we suspend judgments of others and release our attachment to the outcome of our generosity, we are transcending ego and experiencing the connection to Oneness and creation.

Living in an awakened state to Oneness, and consciously making an effort to transcend one’s ego, will lead to many changes in our society. In place of charity delivered with an attitude of benevolence we will find actual caring, loving, and friendship offered to the needy. Our cars will become a reflection of our need for transportation and our homes will become more functional as they reflect and fit a responsible less consumptive lifestyle. Technology will become the tool it was designed to be rather than the status symbol it has become. As our wants give way to our needs, we will find the time spent working to acquire money shrinking and the time found enjoying our lives, family, and friends will grow.

Some people will return to an earthly connection found in gardening or farming, others will find their place in the traditional volunteer organizations, still others will turn their creativity into other types of production that support them in body and soul. For some, their awakening will take them on a journey down the streets of their community putting them directly in touch with those who are most in need of love and acceptance.

One thing is certain, no law can ever be passed that will ensure peace. Laws are a device used by the ego to tell us how things should be, but rarely are. Humanity, as the collective consciousness of mankind, has created the world in which we now live. To change the mind of humanity, we must first change ourselves.

Tracing the Ego of Mankind – The Oneness Movement

The ancient philosophies recognized the human ego and determined that the purpose of life was to somehow manage or overcome its hold. They also recognized the connectedness and inter-dependence of all things in the universe. They called this oneness web of light (Vedic), wheel of time (Tibetan), the Way (Taoism) and One God (Islam). The Eastern World struggled to hold on to this tradition as the Western World embraced the legacy of Abraham.

It seems that the Western World was somehow blinded to the understanding of ego and inter-dependence. The West embarked on a long history of ego driven development where humans viewed the universe as being at their disposal. Many wonderful discoveries and inventions have resulted from this ego driven perspective. Yet, when one looks at the world as a whole it becomes painfully apparent that what has been good for some parts of the world has not been good for others.

The world is now experiencing what is being called the Oneness Movement, which began in India in 1991. It was started by twin avatars Sri Bhagavan and Sri Amma, who are acknowledged as teachers and bringers of enlightenment and god-realization by more than 20 million followers around the world. Their purpose is to uplift humanity’s consciousness from a state of chronic separation and suffering into a state of enlightenment; the awareness of wholeness and Oneness. This is accomplished primarily through deeksha, a transmission of the energy or frequency state of enlightened Oneness.

Deeksha is delivered by a laying on of hands by a trained initiate. It is designed to re-pattern neural functioning in the brain, and thus create a shift in thought processes by dissolving personal perceptual filters that foster the illusion of separateness.

Deeksha has been available outside of India since 2003, and has attracted the interest of biochemist Christian Opitz, a German PH.D. With extensive testing of individuals before and after receiving the blessing, he found that the parietal lobes of the brain were greatly quieted and the frontal lobes were greatly activated, with a slight dominance of the left frontal lobe. The significance of the left frontal lobe is that it brings about a greater sense of happiness and integrated spiritual experience. Whereas, when the right frontal lobe is dominant spiritual experiences may actually make a person more pathological, or even cause hallucinations. Opitz also observed a quieting of the brain stem, which controls much of our primitive fight or flight responses.

In studying some of the dhasas (direct disciples of Bhagavan and Amma) in India, Opitz was surprised to find a huge septum pellucidum. This is also called the brain’s joy center. In most people this part of the brain is underactive, and in depressed people it is severely shrunken.

Testing on deeksha participants seemed to indicate that the blessing not only produced quantifiable neurological changes that were beneficial, but also, unlike investigations of long-term meditators and others who do energy work; the benefits appear to be permanent.

Science has once again demonstrated the reality of the mind body connection in measurable terms. The Oneness Movement seeks to provide the deeksha blessing to 64,000 people worldwide by the year 2012. That represents a lot of lives being lived in a happier more cooperative spirit. Yet in a world with over 6.5 billion people this number seems pretty small. That is, until you apply quantum physics.

Research in quantum physics has revealed, after years of research on the morphogenetic effects of meditation, that the minimum number of people necessary to affect human consciousness in a particular population is the square root of one percent of the population. If we apply this formula to the world population of 6.5 billion, then we see that it only takes 8,000 people in meditation to affect the consciousness of the entire world. If the Oneness Movement is able to affect 64,000 people then they have increased the minimum requirement for change by eightfold.

Not coincidentally, the great hall in the Oneness Temple in Golden City, India accommodates 8,000 people who can meditate together, purposefully influencing the morphogenetic fields across the earth and helping to elevate humankind into enlightenment.

The Oneness Movement appeals to Westerners because it is not a religion, a particular spiritual path, or a set of religious beliefs. However, the movement that began in India is not the only force bringing about the awakening to Oneness. The knowledge has been part of Eastern, Native American, and other indigenous cultures from the beginning of time. As Westerners become more disillusioned by the current state of the world, they are seeking spiritual guidance and many are finding it in some of these older traditions.

As the world awakens to Oneness, we are recognizing that we are not our ego. We are spiritual beings having a human experience; it is the human form that possesses ego. When the human form dies the ego dies with it, and the Spirit, which is who we really are, moves on to the next realm of existence.

Western religious traditions teach that man was created in God’s likeness. The error in man’s thinking was that he understood this to mean that he was superior to all other forms of creation. As he awakens, he becomes aware that his likeness is a spiritual form that is equal and not superior to any other creation.

The world is beginning to understand that Oneness is a life force, a power, a consciousness, and a dimension of existence in which all life is interconnected. It is alive within each of us, and also present throughout nature. It is so much a part of our personal lives that we can easily miss it, unless we catch a glimpse in a special moment; grand moments like a concert where everyone sways and moves to the rhythm of shared music, and simple moments like the blissful peace of a beautiful sunset shared with a loved one. For it is in such moments that we share feelings without regard for status, gender, race, religion, or any of the other illusions of the ego that separate us.

It is not at all surprising that this massive awakening process is creating tumultuous times on Earth. As many people are awakening and therefore striving to transcend ego driven behaviors, many more are responding to the changes with fear, anger, denial and bewilderment; all defense mechanisms used by the ego to protect its self against unknown dangers. Yet, to awaken will require facing the truth of what our ego has done; a truth that includes wasting and polluting resources, extinguishing whole species, and causing unspeakable pain and suffering to our fellow human beings.

Regarding this awakening, Hilary Hart believes “this isn’t a futuristic utopia we’re considering. We might recount some compelling myths, but we’re not talking about a fairy tale. Increased awareness of Oneness doesn’t mean an end to pain or suffering and it’s not an elixir for personal happiness. After all, working with oneness requires us to face the truth of where we’ve been and where we’re going, and take responsibility for our choices that shape the future. But it does bring a lot with it – mystery, meaning, and the hidden powers of unity, and of course cooperation and peace.”

Hart tells us we need to enlarge our perspective. People are starving not because we don’t know they are hungry but because we have either failed to find the solution or have chosen to do nothing; so too are people suffering from oppression and war because we lack the moral wherewithal to develop workable solutions. She goes on to say that the awakening we are experiencing around the world is both revolutionary and evolutionary. It is a historical shift in consciousness that remains difficult for many to comprehend.

Hart is not alone in her assessment of our collective will to solve problems. In the book, End of Days, Sylvia Browne writes that the Antichrist is already here in human form and that his name is apathy. She says, “It’s a fact that evil prevails when good men do nothing.” Too many have been doing nothing for far too long, and what could be more ‘anti-Christ’ than to take the position that poverty, hunger, injustice, and abuse of the planet and its inhabitants are none of our business, or that we’re just too busy to do anything about it? Apathy is a luxury we can’t afford any longer, nor do we want to, because in the end it will destroy us.”

The world has seen the strength and confidence of man’s ego evolve to what is undeniably a high point in history. It would be foolish to think that man will not discover, create, and build even more amazing things in the future. In 1899, Charles H. Duell, Commissioner of the U.S. patent office declared, “Everything that can be invented has been invented.” Clearly, he was mistaken and we would be well advised to set no limits on man’s inventiveness.

However, as awakened beings we may find that our inventiveness takes on new dimensions. As more people decide to live from their Spirit rather than from their ego, a new sense of purpose and responsibility will begin to permeate everything in our lives. Science is already feeling the effect of these changes as quantum physics moves rapidly ahead, changing our view of the mechanical Newtonian physics we‟ve trusted since 1687.

It was in 1905 when Albert Einstein rocked the world with his theory of relativity, stating that time and space cannot be separated and together exists as a fourth dimension. Then in 1970, string-theory physics discovered new properties for the behavior of energy.

In The Divine Matrix, by author Gregg Braden, we are told that physicists are on the verge of explaining the holographic nature of our world based on recent discoveries in quantum physics. Physicists have already proven the existence of a web of energy and they have proven that emotion affects this web. These discoveries have brought science and spirituality onto a convergent path of agreement that, as we think, so shall we be. The world around us has been, is now, and always will be the product of our collective thoughts.

This new scientific information has caused some speculation about the ancient wonders of our world. Some scholars speculate that ancient civilizations understood the energy matrix and used it to create such things as the pyramids, aqueducts, and other structures of their time; structures that we would have difficulty replicating today with our technology. We continue to search for clues to how they accomplished such feats. Perhaps when we find these answers we will also be looking into our own future.

Quantum physics and Oneness are giving us the same message that everything is connected and everything is affected by the quality or degree of love we give. Our greatest challenge to implementing this knowledge for the benefit of mankind is the ego. The ego does not recognize Oneness. It sees everything as separate from itself. This duality will be overcome as individuals consciously seek to transcend the pull of egoism. This will occur one person, one ego, at a time until a critical mass is achieved that will change the collective ego.

These changes are already occurring on a massive scale throughout the world. Universal access to and acceptance of the internet has facilitated massive gatherings of like minded people who are sharing their ideas for everything; from animal rights, organic farming, social justice, responsible energy, and world peace, to spirituality and much more. These groups of people recognize Oneness, if not in its entirety, at least in regard to an issue of concern to them.

Further evidence in the rise of consciousness is the vast array of documentary films that have appeared in recent years; films like, Waiting for Superman, Dirt The Movie, I Am, The Future of Food, and To Catch A Dollar. Some of these films are making it to the big screen in theaters around the country, while others are being shared person to person via the internet in a quiet yet powerful cry to us all to wake up and recognize that we are all One.

Tracing the Ego of Mankind – Reviewing the Literature

Ancient Hindu texts are a rich source of insight into the nature of man‟s ego.

“…The ego gropes in darkness, while the Self lives in light…”  ~ The Katha Upanishad

“The ego is like a stick dividing water in two. It creates the impression that you are one and I am another. When the ego vanishes you will realize that Brahman is your own inner consciousness.”  ~ Shri Ramakrishna Paramahamsa

Ancient Eastern religious texts are available primarily as translations and excerpts. They are filled with references to ego and advice for living with or managing ego. Ego appears to have been a very key concept in understanding their relationship to God.

The Judeo-Christian and Islamic traditions are considered to be Western traditions and are relatively young at about 2,000 years old. The basis of Jewish sacred texts is the Torah, which became the first five books of the Bible used by Christianity. The principal message of the Torah is the absolute unity of God, His creation of the world and His concern for it.

The Koran is the sacred text of Islam. However, most of the Western world is more familiar with the wisdom provided by the poet, Rumi; also a Sunni Muslim Islamic Jurist, a theologian and Sufi mystic. His current popularity is the result of his tolerance of all religions, and the emphasis he placed on love and charity in his teachings.

“If the foot of the trees were not tied to earth, they would be pursuing me. For I have blossomed so much, I am the envy of the gardens.”  ~ Rumi

“The idol of your self is the mother of all idols. To regard the self as easy to subdue is a mistake.”  ~ Rumi

Sylvia Brown provides a concise description of many indigenous and Native American spiritual beliefs in her book End of Days. The recurring theme in these traditions is a deep regard for the earth and for the plant and animal kingdoms. This regard for animate and inanimate creation outside of the human being demonstrates an awareness of the Oneness of creation and sensitivity to the damaging power of ego.

Clearly, man has had ample opportunity to examine the state of his ego long before Sigmund Freud gave us a proper name and definition for it. It appears that Freud ushered in a new era of thought regarding ego. The ways in which he dissected, analyzed, and proposed curing its ailments, removed any and all spiritual consideration. This mentality became the basis for psychology, sociology and much of the self-help literature that appeared through the latter half of the twentieth century.

The Western world has embraced science and disregarded ego almost since the inception of Christianity. The sacred texts of the Western world provided ample guidance on the matter of ego, yet it appears largely ignored. In fact, strong ego is even admired in certain occupations; including lawyers, politicians, sports figures, and business leaders.

Now as we have entered the twenty-first century we are seeing a new kind of literature entering the market. Interestingly, this literature is the result of science proving what spirituality has been telling us since ancient times.

The Divine Matrix by Gregg Braden, describes a web of energy that connects absolutely everything in the universe. Miraculously, this web is affected by emotion pointing directly back to the power of each individual to influence the world by their thoughts.

Blinded by Science by Matthew Silverstone, investigates the ground-breaking principle that everything vibrates and therefore has an effect on everything else. Water is particularly susceptible to vibration, holding on to it for long periods of time. This has implications for sleep disorders, homeopathy, healing, body rhythms, lunar cycles and much more.

The rise in quantum physics, which is where these amazing new discoveries are being made, coincides with a spiritual movement called Oneness. Authors like Eckhart Tolle, Deepak Chopra, Don Miguel Ruiz and others, are capturing large audiences, hungry for a gentler life filled with meaning and purpose. 

The literature seems to mimic the circle of life. We begin knowing that ego separates us from the world; we succumb to the darkness of our ego and wreak havoc on the world; and finally we experience an awakening which brings us back to understanding that beyond our ego, we are all one.

The challenge before us is to fashion a peaceful world where some live in ego while others are awakening to the desire to transcend it. The Awakening is in its infancy, and it seems the ramifications of the coming change haven‟t dawned on the world as yet. Books like Suze Orman’s Action Plan: New Rules for New Times may be just the beginning of what we are going to see in coming years. Orman‟s book is an acknowledgement that we are entering a new economic era that promises to be difficult and long term. Practical books like this one help everyone navigate through the changes that are occurring, without regard to one‟s level of spiritual enlightenment.

Tracing the Ego of Mankind – Introduction

With every passing day we see more evidence of the audacity of man’s ego. We are witness to a world that is being thrust forward as man’s inventiveness has climbed exponentially, and we are witness to his ever increasing self confidence – a confidence that leads him to believe, perhaps rightly so, that anything is possible.

Fortunes have been created in ways never before imaginable, through the size and marketing of one’s ideas, talent, and determination rather than through the strength of one’s army or the prominence of one’s ancestors. Luxuries previously available only to royalty have become available to the common man. Monarchies have relinquished their previous status to the new found power and influence of the self-made industrialists and financiers. World leaders are more often the product of democracy than birth; a democracy that is essential to the capitalist philosophy which is now driving the world’s economy.

The road to prosperity has been rough. The world has endured many wars, and has endured increasingly frequent and widespread economic hardship. Collectively we seem to accept these problems as a natural part of life, while we continue to strive for world peace and an end to hunger. Overall, we believe we are making progress on the problems that define our daily lives. Perhaps this progress is the result of man’s ego; his ability to know what he wants, to figure out how to get it, and to take action. Man’s self confidence has never been higher, nor has his ego been more dominant.

We are now seeing the breakdown of moral standards among our world leaders, politicians, teachers and clergy. Hardly a day goes by that a sex scandal isn’t announced; and hardly a day goes by that those stories aren’t spun to make them seem more palatable. Our traditional heroes have become headline news for drugs, promiscuity and reckless behavior. Sadly, ordinary people seem to be losing their own moral compass as well.

The news has become filled with tragic stories of youth who are being marginalized and bullied. Feeling misunderstood and unsupported they turn to suicide or worse yet, mass murder. It’s not just our youth experiencing this disillusionment; vast segments of our general workforce are feeling it as well. “Going postal” has become common terminology for this phenomenon. For many, even home is not a place of refuge from a world losing control of better judgment. According to the U.S. Department of Justice, in 1999 there were 791,210 reports of domestic violence with 1,642 resulting in death of the victim.

Among the pressures driving our dissatisfaction is the rise of marketing. Marketers have made fortunes for the businesses they serve by convincing the world that everyone needs their products or services in order to; be sexier, be happier, have more fun, keep up with others, and demonstrate their success. Unlike advertising, which helps you find what you need, marketing caters to the ego. The ego wants to be special; to have at least what others have, and preferably more. Marketers understand the desires of the ego and know how to push ones buttons without regard for individual needs or capabilities. And so, fewer and fewer companies make more and more money, much of which they spend on lobbying to create the political environment that best serves their interests. We call these systems capitalism and democracy, and lost in our egoistic ways, we think they represent the best systems for the rest of the world to follow.

While these problems are substantial, there may be an even bigger problem with man’s ego-centered approach to life. In his zeal to solve medical mysteries, provide cheap energy, end world hunger, and improve daily life, he has rushed into sciences he barely understands. This lack of understanding has steadily depleted the ozone layer, led to earthquakes from fracking for natural gas, poisoned millions of people with radiation, created droughts in some places and floods in others, and led to wars over natural resources and the attendant loss of many lives.

As man works to solve the problems of the world he seems to be creating even bigger problems. The biggest problem may be the tunnel vision that has developed as a result of greed. The wheels of our current science are lubricated with money. Given a choice between money and responsible use of earth’s resources, money usually prevails. All people share in this problem as co-conspirators until such a time as we are ready to exert our collective will to make change happen.

As we have watched man’s magnificent ego solve mysteries and create new things we’ve experienced a time in this world that will go down in history for its innovation, growth, and abundance. At the same time however, we are witnessing a great divide in the minds of people everywhere. The divide seems to be between those who relish in the magnificence of individualism and those who believe we need to develop our capacity for cooperation. This divide cannot be ignored as its ability to polarize people is growing in strength with each new war, epidemic, and natural disaster.

The investigation undertaken here will be a journey through mans understanding of his ego. From the writings of the world’s oldest religions to the contemporary self-help books, we will look at what man thinks he knows about himself and about his relationship with the world around him. From this study will emerge a critical view of the human ego and how it has shaped the world in which we live.

Living Oneness In Your Community

Oneness is the understanding that everything in the universe is connected.  The Golden Rule tells us to “Do unto others as you would have others do unto you.”  This is a simple solid foundation for how to live in our family, circle of friends, workplace, groups we belong to, and our community.  It’s simple, but it’s not easy.

It’s not easy because our ego gets in the way.  Our ego tells us we are special and our ego is offended when others do not recognize our specialness.  We can see how this works by looking at a loaf of bread.

Think of a loaf of fresh bread coming out of the oven all golden brown and smelling delicious.  This is how we’d like to experience our community; warm and inviting.  Now consider what makes up that loaf of bread; flour, eggs, yeast, sugar, perhaps molasses, raisins, cinnamon or a variety of other ingredients.  Each ingredient has a special purpose in the recipe that makes bread taste so good.  Any ingredient by itself does not give us the same pleasure as we get from combining them in just the right way.  In other words, the ingredients are not special but their purpose is special.

Consider the pleasure derived from a community (the bread) when individuals in that community (the ingredients) work together.  By removing the idea of our individual specialness we are freed to focus on our purpose.  For it is in our purpose that we each contribute unique and necessary talents that will benefit not only our community but ourselves.

One’s ego is a master of deception, however.  Specialness is disguised in many ways; race, religion, political persuasion, education, job title, economic status, health status, age, heritage and more.  These types of specialness build a fence around us that excludes certain less special individuals.  To further complicate matters, when one tries to set aside specialness the ego introduces fear.  Fear of being wrong, different, rejected, ridiculed or worse.  And to complicate matters more, our ego has made these reactions automatic so we aren’t generally aware that we are responding in these ways.

Living in Oneness within a community means overcoming our specialness in spite of our fears so that we can focus on our purpose.  Our purpose is to love one another just as we love ourselves.

Livinging in Oneness; What Does This Mean?

Oneness is the understanding that everything in the universe is connected.  For simplicity, consider our interdependence between humans, plants, animals, and the elements of the earth and atmosphere in which we live.  This outer world responds to events as any family would.  When one member of the family is in distress, the rest of the family feels something; empathy, sorrow, distress, disgust, anger, or perhaps an urge to somehow end that person’s distress.  Likewise, when someone in the family experiences something good the rest of the family feels something; joy, admiration, pride, envy, jealousy, or other emotions.  Clearly, living in a family is messy.  Yet when it works well and we are experiencing the positive emotions, we would rather be with our family than anywhere else.

How then do we create a family environment that is mostly positive?  Remember the Golden Rule:  “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”   Living in oneness is thinking of the others as if they were in fact you.  Would you snub yourself?  Would you knowingly deceive yourself? Would you find joy in criticizing, condemning, insulting, or physically hurting yourself?  Of course not!

The simplicity of the Golden Rule holds the most profound lesson anyone needs to learn.  Each time you are interacting with a relative (or friend, coworker, clerk etc) try seeing them as yourself and listen to how you are speaking to them and treating them.  Would you like to be on the receiving end of your words and actions?  If not, consider what you can do differently next time and then vow to make the change.

Are you thinking they deserved what you said or how you treated them?  If so, consider that this thought is your ego taking control over you.  The bigger your ego, the easier it is to offend you.  Letting one’s ego go uncontrolled leads to a life of negative emotion by setting up a never ending chicken-or-the-egg cycle;  I’ll be nice to them when they are nice to me, but they won’t  be nice to me until I am nice to them.  This is no-win thinking.  If you really want to be treated well, you must become the change you want to see in others.

Take it one day at a time and see if you can observe how you are interacting with others. Becoming aware is the first step to living in oneness.